Every August, families start with the best intentions. The backpack has a designated spot. The calendar is ready. Everyone knows what time they need to leave in the morning. Your child understands that homework comes before gaming, dirty clothes go in the hamper, and the permission slip really does need to make it from the backpack to the kitchen counter.

A child slams a door, bursts into tears, yells over a small disappointment, or completely falls apart when plans change. From the outside, the reaction can seem far bigger than the situation. But big feelings are rarely just about the moment in front of us. They are often a sign that the Control Tower is overwhelmed.

Helping Families See Time Before It Sneaks Up. "I told him about the project two weeks ago." "She knew the test was Friday." "How can tomorrow always come as such a surprise?" If you've ever found yourself asking these questions, you're not alone. Many parents assume their child isn't paying attention or simply isn't thinking ahead. But for many children with ADHD, the problem isn't caring about the future.