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Understanding changes everything.

Helping children understand themselves.  Equipping families.
Strengthening schools.

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Welcome

Start with the ideas that guide my work.

These simple truths have become the foundation for my books, The Control Tower Model™, and my approach to helping children understand themselves.

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Dr. H's Truth of the Month

Behavior is communication.

Children's behavior always tells us something.

Rather than asking, "How do I stop this?" begin by asking,

"What is this behavior trying to communicate?"

When we understand the message, we are far more likely to solve the problem.

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